Baby no heartbeat at 6 weeks1/16/2024 surely it was a one off bad luck. We decided to pay for a private scan at 8 weeks for reassurance. Of course there was excitement but also dread, what if it happened again. I had a couple of cycles and we fell pregnant again. I had a niggling feeling something wasn't right so ended up with a scan that showed I still had "retained" products so I was put on a course of antibiotics which helped. not that he had ever been told! A week or so later. Time passed and I concentrated on my son to get me through. It was over quite quickly and I felt so lost afterwards. we were escorted to another ward, I honestly felt like I was doing the walk of shame as I passed all these pregnant women eagerly waiting there scans. Our options were given to us but it was suggested that I opted for medical management due to the amount of time that had passed. It was one of the most awful experiences of my life,I had never been put under with anaesthetic before but all the nurses etc were lovely and reassuring. I was right, there was no heartbeat and the baby only measured 8 weeks. We were called in and as I entered the room I broke down, instinct just told me something wasn't right. I'm sure he thought I was being daft and kept positive for the both of us. Time passed and all seemed well, I hadn't suffered any sickness but then I didn't with my first.Finally the day of our 12 week scan came, I remember the journey vividly and got quite upset and shared my fears for the first time with my partner, I hadn't wanted to worry him before. It took us 6 months to get our positive pregnancy test, we were over the moon and eagerly started waited for our 12 week scan. A few weeks later I remembered a friend of a friend going through something called a missed miscarriage, something I hadn't heard of before but I became increasingly worried and paranoid that this too would happen to us. We decided the time was right to start trying for our second child, we didn't think for a second we would have any issues especially since our first was so straightforward.
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